till death do us part...

yeah, i'm talking bout the big M word- Marriage...
with the wedding of a high-profiled head of the administration scheduled for this saturday,
it's been the 'buah mulut' for quite some time now,
with the so-called rumours in the initial stage to the denial stage...
'rumours saje la... rumours saje je...'



i cant help but get disappointed and upset...
i thought they were supposed to be the suami isteri contoh
never shy displaying affection towards each other in public
public confession of love and honour
... until the day she died...
then... things changed...
it is as if the 'reset' button had been pushed...
erase all past memories, past love, past everything (including deceased wife), start anew...

i find this part a bit too hard for me to swallow
how can a man love his wife, and find another after her death...
'till death do us part'
does death gives us the locus standi to count our wedding vows null & void???
then, it means whatever love you professed is only valid as long as your spouse remains alive?
that 8u11$h14 to me eh!!!
what's happening nowadays sound more like 'till (your) death do us part...'
that is not true love to me...
that is not what agape love is to me...
that is not the love that i think it should be...
that is not true love!!!
that is hypocracy!!!

true love means 'till (my) death do us part..'
true love means loving our spouse, for the rest of our life, not his/her life...
true love surpasses deaths...

i find it hard to accept re-marrying, even after one's spouse had passed away...
i dont think it is possible to accept another person, or to find a replacement after our spouse had passed away...
i dont think people can move on that quickly (less than 2years since the sad demise)
i dont think people should move on that quickly, with another person!!!
i dont think it's ever possible to make the vow again, with another 'life partner'...
what??? till (another) death do us part???

what ever happened to real LOVE???